Constance Denzinger Markham

06/07/1955 - 01/09/2021

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Obituary For Constance Denzinger Markham

Constance was a loving wife to her husband, Jim, mother to her two kids, James and Alyssa, mother-in-law to Kelsey and Sam, sister to Dwayne, and friend to many. We lost her in a tragic accident at Mt. Rainier.

Constance was a woman of Christ, a woman of courage and a woman of strong character. She did not accept limitations for herself or those she loved.

She lived as a bright light in the world.

Constance and Jim moved to Eatonville, WA, in April, to be closer to James and Alyssa, living a storybook life on 20 acres with their horses in the barn and pastures out back. She loved horseback riding, snowmobiling, downhill skiing, her church and worship/study time, baking and being with family and friends.

A poem of Constance is so very appropriate, as she entered Heaven on a snow-covered ridge.

‘The horns of the angels Blasting through the trees. Naked and bare branches Stretch in the wind, Releasing resting snow Into the breeze. What has moved the angels To sound such a blast? Ah, the death of a fine woman Announcing her arrival Into the Kingdom! Let the world know A great woman has passed – Blasting trumpets From this day to the last.’

It was a short step into the Heavenly realm, as she lived a joyful and blessed life here with us.

‘Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains exactly as it was. I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well.’

Psalm 94: 18-19 When I said, “My foot is slipping, your love, oh Lord, supported me. When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought joy to my soul.\"

Our Lady and Mom is in the Heavenly realm, with no pain or suffering. She will be forever missed in this dimension, but the reunion will be so very sweet. Amen

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  • 01/27/2022

    I will miss Constance. She was a light in the darkness, a flower in the thorns. She had a very positive spirit and lived life to it\'s fullest! She was kind and unselfish. She loved nature, her horse, and exercising. She and Jim were like two peas in a pod. My best wishes to their children. May God smile down on them.

  • 01/27/2022

    I m so sorry to hear of Constances\' demise. I know she will be missed by you and your family always.

  • 01/27/2022

    We think of you with love and the best memories. You were always strong and self-assured, valued lessons for us and anyone else who had the good fortune to know you. We will miss you. Your prescence was a present to everyone.

  • 01/27/2022

    Three words come to mind when I think of Constance: Attitude, Confidence, and Knowledge. She always had a positive attitude and was confident in herself. She amazed me with her knowledge. It seemed like she knew something about any topic that came up. We shall miss her.

  • 01/27/2022

    In 2019, I remember walking around the Pittsburgh Vintage Grand Prix with Constance, making our way with the guys back to the paddock area. As we talked, I realized I had never met anyone so spunky, direct, matter-of-fact - and she had a great sense of humor on top of it. And yes, I will remember her smile that lit up her eyes. She will truly be missed; may she rest in peace. My condolences to Jim, James, and Alyssa.

  • 01/27/2022

    Jim and Family, I was so very deeply saddened by the sudden and tragic loss of Constance. You are often on my mind and heart and in my prayers for a surprising and hopeful peace that only God can bring. With Love, Tim Hoekstra

  • 01/27/2022

    Our sincere condolences to you, Jim and your family, for your loss. You are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Rose Ippolito McKee and Dan McKee College friend from Chi Omega, Bradley University

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